http://www.laitman.com/2009/07/love-family-and-the-purpose-of-creation/ Kabbalah and the Meaning of Life - Michael Laitman's Personal Blog Wed, 08 Feb 2012 15:12:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://www.laitman.com/2009/07/love-family-and-the-purpose-of-creation/comment-page-1/#comment-4608 Michel Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:33:22 +0000 http://www.laitman.com/?p=5219#comment-4608 Based on my personal experience and discussions with friends it seems that today, more and more, parents have to become aware of the internal state of each member of the familly in order to check if the familly link is healthy or if the children are provided the right conditions for them to develop according to their unique profile. If we don't do that we are unable to understand and address issues. Monney, gifts any material goods no longer help. On the contrary, giving material gifts tend to increase crisis situations. Actually the inner work starts by totally reconsidering the perception one has of his kids and wife while another important thing is to stop thinking one can solve a familly crisis alone. One has to internally elevate his children not reform them. To do so, one has to nullify his ego before the familly while keeping his full responsibility. This looks very different from the "old" consideration of the familly. Based on my personal experience and discussions with friends it seems that today, more and more, parents have to become aware of the internal state of each member of the familly in order to check if the familly link is healthy or if the children are provided the right conditions for them to develop according to their unique profile. If we don’t do that we are unable to understand and address issues. Monney, gifts any material goods no longer help. On the contrary, giving material gifts tend to increase crisis situations.
Actually the inner work starts by totally reconsidering the perception one has of his kids and wife while another important thing is to stop thinking one can solve a familly crisis alone. One has to internally elevate his children not reform them. To do so, one has to nullify his ego before the familly while keeping his full responsibility.
This looks very different from the “old” consideration of the familly.

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